How To Deal With Jealous Dog Breeds and Clingy Pups
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Do you suspect that you have a jealous dog breed?
Like their pet parents, dogs can experience various emotions, including jealousy and clinginess.
If you've ever owned breeds known for their strong attachment ("velcro dog breeds"), you might have experienced this firsthand.
It's common to see your pup sulking when they're not getting enough attention.
Or they might even literally follow you from room to room like your own personal shadow.
These so-called velcro dogs just can't seem to get enough of their human family!
Dealing with jealousy and clingy behavior in dogs, especially in breeds predisposed to it, can be challenging.
Still, it's an essential aspect of responsible pet ownership.
Join us as we explore the fascinating world of jealous and clingy dog breeds!
We'll answer why they exhibit such behaviour, the signs to watch for, and how to manage their need for constant companionship.
At a Glance: Jealous & Clingy Dog Breeds
| Breed | Size | Clinginess Level | Jealousy Tendency | Best For | Key Trait |
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| French Bulldog | Small | Very High | High | Apartment dwellers, singles | Ultimate lap dog |
| Golden Retriever | Large | High | Medium-High | Families, therapy work | Gentle, loving nature |
| Labrador Retriever | Large | High | Medium-High | Active families | Most popular dog breed |
| German Shepherd | Large | High | High | Single person, guard work | Loyal protective dog |
| Border Collie | Medium | Very High | High | Active owners | Needs constant mental stimulation |
| Cavalier King Charles Spaniel | Small | Very High | Medium | Seniors, companion seekers | Royal lap dog legacy |
| Italian Greyhound | Small | Very High | High | Quiet homes | Sensitive velcro dog |
| Great Dane | Extra Large | High | Medium | Experienced owners | Gentle giant personality |
| Cocker Spaniel | Medium | High | High | Families | Social, affectionate |
| Doberman Pinscher | Large | High | Very High | Experienced owners | Protective, devoted |
| Australian Shepherd | Medium-Large | Very High | High | Active families | Working dog energy |
| Shih Tzu | Small | Very High | High | Companion seekers | Bred for royalty |
| Shetland Sheepdog | Medium | High | High | Families | Sensitive herder |
| Saint Bernard | Extra Large | High | Medium | Space-rich homes | Patient rescue dog |
| Vizsla (Hungarian) | Large | Very High | Very High | Very active owners | Ultimate velcro dog |
Table of Contents
- What's the Difference Between Jealousy and Clinginess?
- Signs of A Jealous or Clingy Dog
- The Most Clingy Dog Breeds and Jealous Pups
- Good News: How to Stop Jealous and Clingy Behaviours
- Is a Clingy Breed the Right Choice for You?
- Special Considerations for Different Living Situations
- The Bottom Line: Understanding Your Velcro Dog
What's the Difference Between Jealousy and Clinginess?
Before we dive deeper, let's clear something up.
While jealousy and clinginess often go hand-in-hand, they're not exactly the same thing.
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Jealousy happens when your dog sees a threat to their status or the resources they value (like your attention). Think of it as your pup saying, "Hey! That's MY human!" when you pet another dog at the dog park or when a new family member enters the home.
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Clinginess (sometimes called "velcro dog syndrome") is when your dog has an excessive need to be near you at all times. These loyal companions struggle with even short periods of separation. They also show signs of separation anxiety when you leave.
Interestingly, a study from the University of California San Diego led by researcher Christine Harris found that dogs do experience genuine jealousy similar to human beings.
When dogs saw their owners interact with a stuffed dog (a fake dog that looked real), they showed more jealous behaviors than when owners interacted with different objects like a stuffed animal or toy.
This groundbreaking dog fact proved that dog jealousy isn't just us imagining things - it's real!
Many clingy breeds are also prone to jealousy, which makes sense.
If your dog thinks you're their whole world, they're naturally going to worry when someone else enters the picture!
Why Do Dogs Get Jealous and Clingy?
Like human jealousy, dog jealousy and clingy nature come from a complex mix of emotions and natural instinct.
Remember, dogs are pack animals and social animals by nature.
In the wild, being separated from the pack could mean danger, so the strong desire to stick close to family members is built right into their DNA.
Common triggers for jealous and clingy dog behaviors include:
- Introduction of a new pet, new puppy, or new family member
- A new baby arriving in the household
- Meeting new people at a friend's house
- Changes in daily routine or moving to a new environment
- Less time spent together than usual
- Presence of other dogs or animals nearby (even a real dog vs a stuffed toy!)
- Being left alone for long periods of time
- Your boyfriend's dog or partner's pet joining the household
- Not getting to be the center of attention anymore
Loyal dogs, known for their close bonds with their owners, may be more prone to both jealousy and clinginess.
This is because they often form deep emotional bonds and are sensitive to environmental changes.
Their affectionate nature means they crave human interaction constantly!
The good news?
Understanding what triggers your dog's jealousy or clingy dog behavior is the first step to helping them feel more secure.
Signs of A Jealous or Clingy Dog
Knowing the common signs of jealousy and clingy dog behavior is the first step toward developing an effective strategy for dealing with the problem.
What might start as a "cute" quirk can quickly become destructive if left unchecked.
Dog parents should watch out for the following behaviors:
1. Following You Everywhere
Does your dog follow you from the living room to the kitchen, then wait outside the bathroom door?
That's classic velcro dog behavior!
The ultimate velcro dog won't let you out of their sight, even for a moment.
While it might seem sweet at first, this constant companionship can become exhausting for both you and your pup.
Pay attention to your dog's body language when you try to leave a room.
Do they immediately jump up and follow?
This is a sign they're struggling with being independent.
2. Attention Seeking and Pushy Behavior
If your dog does tricks on their own, nudges your hand all the time, or pushes between you and others, they're seeking your attention.
They want to make sure they're still your number one!
A jealous puppy or older dog might paw at you, bark for no clear reason, or bring you their favorite toys repeatedly just to get you to focus on them.
This pushy behavior is their way of saying "Pay attention to ME!"
Most behaviorists agree that this territorial instinct is linked to jealousy.
Dogs act out when they fear being replaced by a new person or dog.
A great way to manage this is to be patient with your loving companion and establish a consistent routine.
3. Aggressive Behavior Toward New Family Members
If your dog is jealous of a new pet, new baby, or new partner, they might display aggressive behavior toward them.
This can show up in many ways: biting, barking, nipping, growling, or jumping.
Some protective dogs become especially intense when they see you giving attention to someone else.
Your loyal dog might even try to physically block the new person from getting close to you.
This type of jealousy can be serious and needs to be addressed quickly.
It's important to understand that your dog doesn't dislike the person or pet for any personal reason.
They just worry that this stranger might threaten their place in the family.
You need to show them it's not okay without getting aggressive yourself.
Never punish aggressive behavior with more aggression - this only makes things worse.
4. Separation Anxiety Panics
This is where clinginess really shows up.
When you leave, even for short periods, does your dog completely panic?
Excessive barking, destructive behavior, pacing, drooling, or inappropriate elimination can all be signs of severe separation anxiety.
For clingy canines, being alone feels scary.
They're not being "bad" - they're experiencing real distress.
Social dogs used to constant companionship can struggle a lot when left by themselves.
5. Resource Guarding Their Food Bowl and Possessions
Most behaviorists agree that resource guarding is where jealous dog behavior often starts.
Your home provides food, water, favorite toys, and a safe space to play.
If a new dog enters the picture, your pup's brain tells them that the newcomer might take away these resources.
You might notice your possessive dog:
- Hides their toys when the person they're jealous of is nearby
- Acts weird or aggressively near their food bowl
- Guards their favorite sleeping spot
- Won't let others near you (treating you as a resource!)
When their owners seem to pet other dogs at the dog park, jealous pups sometimes pull hard on their leashes or bark a lot.
No matter what, a jealous pooch will tell you if something's wrong.
6. Demanding Personal Space and Being a Possessive Dog
Jealousy is clear when a dog is protective or pushy about their spot.
For example, if you and your partner are cuddling to watch a TV show and your dog keeps wedging between you, there's a clear message: "This is MY human!"
Your loyal cuddle buddy might whine, give you sad puppy-dog eyes, and jump on your lap whenever possible.
They want to make absolutely sure they're part of every moment.
This possessive dog behavior shows they see you as "theirs" and don't want to share.
7. Destructive Behaviour as Unwanted Behaviors
When companion dogs don't feel like they're getting the extra attention they need, they may do something destructive.
A normally well-behaved dog might suddenly start scratching furniture, chewing shoes, tearing up pillows, or making a mess.
This isn't spite, it's communication.
Your dog is telling you through these unwanted behaviors that something is wrong.
They might also be trying to get your attention in the only way they know how.
8. Inappropriate Elimination
Peeing or pooping inside can be super annoying, but it may be a sign of jealousy or anxiety.
Your needy dog has to find ways to get your attention, and unfortunately, this might be one of them.
That said, you shouldn't rule out that this could be a sign of a health issue.
A visit to the vet is always a good idea to rule out medical problems before assuming it's just behavioral.
But in a multi-pet household, especially after bringing home new babies or a new puppy, this behavior often signals jealousy.
9. Changes in Body Language
Watch your dog's body language carefully.
Signs of a jealous dog include:
- Ears pinned back when you interact with others
- Stiff body posture
- Whale eye (showing the whites of their eyes)
- Excessive yawning or lip licking (stress signals)
- Turning away or sulking when ignored
Reading these subtle cues helps you catch jealousy early before it becomes a bigger problem.
Related: How Do Calming Dog Beds Work? The Science of Comfort
The Most Clingy Dog Breeds and Jealous Pups
As we've mentioned, some breeds are naturally more prone to velcro dog syndrome than others.
These loving dog breeds form incredibly close bonds with their human companions and often struggle when left alone.
Here are some of the clingiest dog breeds and most popular breeds known for their strong attachment:
French Bulldogs
These adorable bat-eared pups are the definition of lap dogs!
The French Bulldog was literally bred to be a loving companion, and they take that job seriously.
Despite their small size, they have huge personalities and an even bigger need for attention.
Frenchies don't do well with long periods alone and would much rather be glued to your side.
They're especially prone to jealousy when new people enter the home.
Many dog lovers choose French Bulldogs specifically because they want that constant companionship!
Golden Retrievers
One of the most popular dog breeds in the world, Golden Retrievers are famous for their friendly nature and gentle disposition.
These excellent companions are often used as therapy dogs and service dogs because of their loving, patient temperament.
However, their affectionate nature means they can become quite clingy.
Golden Retrievers thrive on human interaction and can develop separation anxiety if left alone too much.
They form such a strong bond with their families that they genuinely need to be involved in everything you do.
Labrador Retrievers
Labs are America's sweetheart and for good reason!
Like their Golden cousins, Labrador Retrievers are loyal companions who form deep bonds with their families.
They're active dogs who need both physical exercise and mental stimulation, but more than anything, they need YOU.
Labs are happiest when they're part of every family activity.
Leave them alone for much time, and you'll likely come home to some destructive behavior.
These social dogs are pack animals through and through.
German Shepherds
German Shepherd Dogs are intelligent, loyal, and incredibly devoted to their families.
Originally bred as herding and guard dogs, they have a natural protective instinct.
This makes them amazing companions but also means they can be quite clingy with their favorite person.
German Shepherds often pick one family member to bond with most strongly, becoming their shadow.
They're the most loyal dog to their chosen person and can show jealous behaviors if that person gives attention to others.
Their protective dog nature means they take their job of watching over you very seriously!
Border Collies
As one of the smartest breeds of dogs, Border Collies need constant mental stimulation and physical exercise.
But they also crave close companionship with their owners.
These working dogs were bred to work alongside humans all day, so being alone goes against everything in their nature.
Without proper training and attention, Border Collies can develop extreme clingy behavior and destructive habits.
They need a job to do and lots of interaction.
An understimulated Border Collie will create their own "job".
This usually means following breeds like these can become your literal shadow!
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
Named after King Charles II of England (and adored by Queen Victoria too!), these royal pups are the ultimate lap dogs.
Cavaliers were bred for one purpose: to keep their humans company.
They're gentle, affectionate, and absolutely devoted to their families.
The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is often considered one of the most clingy dog breeds because they genuinely cannot get enough cuddles.
They want to be with you every single moment.
These toy dogs might be small, but their need for attention is huge!
Italian Greyhound
Don't let their elegant appearance fool you.
These small dogs are velcro dogs through and through!
Italian Greyhounds are sensitive souls who form incredibly strong attachments to their pet parents.
Despite their reputation as a fancy breed, they're actually quite needy and prefer to spend every moment snuggled up with their favorite human.
These gentle dogs can become anxious in new environments or around new people, clinging even closer to their owners.
They're perfect for someone who wants a constant, devoted companion.
Great Dane
This gentle giant might seem independent because of their size, but Great Danes are actually big softies who love being close to their families.
Despite needing little space for such big dogs (they're surprisingly lazy indoors!), they have huge hearts full of love.
Many Great Dane owners joke that their dog doesn't realize they're not a lap dog!
These giants will absolutely try to curl up on your lap like they're still puppies.
Their sweet, clingy nature makes them wonderful family pets.
Cocker Spaniels
With their soulful eyes and sweet temperament, Cocker Spaniels are loving dog breeds that thrive on companionship.
They're social animals who don't do well when left alone for extended periods.
Cocker Spaniels were bred to work closely with hunters, so they naturally want to be by your side.
These dogs can show jealous behaviors when they feel ignored or when a new pet joins the family.
They need regular attention and lots of affection to stay happy.
Doberman Pinscher
Dobermans might look tough, but with their families, they're total sweethearts.
These loyal companions are incredibly devoted and often form especially close bonds with one person.
Their protective nature combined with their need for constant companionship makes them both excellent guard dogs and clingy canines.
A Doberman Pinscher will be your most loyal defender and your constant shadow.
They take their role as protector seriously and want to be wherever you are to keep you safe.
Australian Shepherds
Australian Shepherds are high-energy herding dogs that bond intensely with their families.
These intelligent, active dogs need tons of physical exercise and mental challenges.
But beyond their physical needs, they also have strong emotional needs for companionship.
Aussies can develop severe separation anxiety if left alone for a long time.
They're working dogs who want a job, and often that job becomes "stick to my human like glue."
In a social situation, they'll constantly check on their owner to make sure everyone is where they should be - that herding instinct never quits!
Shih Tzu
Originally bred as companion dogs for Chinese royalty, Shih Tzus know they're special.
And they expect to be treated that way!
These small, fluffy pups are happiest when they're in your lap or following you around.
The Shih Tzu is a perfect choice for someone who wants a constant companion and doesn't mind a dog who demands attention.
They can be quite possessive of their favorite person and may show jealousy toward other pets or people.
Shetland Sheepdog
Often called "Shelties," these dogs are like smaller, fluffier versions of Collies.
Shetland Sheepdogs are incredibly loyal and form close bonds with their entire human family.
They're sensitive dogs who pick up on their owners' emotions and want to be involved in everything.
Shelties can become anxious when separated from their loved ones and may develop unwanted behaviors if left alone too much.
They need patient dog training and lots of reassurance to feel secure.
Saint Bernard
Another gentle giant, the Saint Bernard is a loving companion despite their massive size.
These dogs are patient, kind, and incredibly devoted to their families.
Originally bred for rescue work in the Swiss Alps, they have a natural desire to stay close and protect their people.
Saint Bernards might drool a lot, but they'll also love you with every ounce of their 120+ pound bodies!
They're wonderful with children and make excellent family dogs, though they do need space due to their size.
Vizsla (Hungarian Breed)
This Hungarian breed is sometimes called the "ultimate velcro dog" for good reason.
Vizslas are extremely affectionate and form intense bonds with their owners.
They need lots of physical exercise and mental stimulation, but more than anything, they need constant companionship.
A Vizsla left alone too long will likely develop behavioral problems.
These aren't dogs for people who work long hours away from home.
They're best suited for active owners who can include them in most daily activities.
The clingiest dog on this list?
The Vizsla is definitely a top contender!
Most of the time, these jealous and clingy breeds are just trying to tell you they love you - maybe a little too much!
But with proper training and patience, you can help them feel more secure.
Related: Top 10 Independent Dog Breeds With Low Separation Anxiety
Good News: How to Stop Jealous and Clingy Behaviours
Here's the good news: while some dogs are naturally more prone to a clingy nature than others, you can definitely help your pup become more independent and confident.
Stopping these behaviors requires patience, consistency, and a good understanding of what your dog needs.
Here are some top tips to help manage jealousy and clinginess:
1. Positive Reinforcement for Good Behavior
Reward your dog for calm and independent behavior.
When your dog settles down on their own instead of demanding attention, praise them or give a treat.
This encourages them to associate good behaviour with positive outcomes.
Even small moments of independence deserve celebration!
If your dog stays calm when you pet another dog or when new people visit, make sure to reward that good behavior immediately.
2. Equal Attention for Multi-Pet Households
If you have several pets, make sure you distribute attention fairly among all family members - human and animal!
It's a good idea to schedule one-on-one time with each pet to prevent feelings of jealousy.
When bringing home a new puppy or dealing with your boyfriend's dog joining the household, be extra careful to give your older dog individual attention.
This reassures them they're still important and haven't been replaced.
3. Proper Training is Essential
Invest time in obedience dog training to establish clear boundaries and commands.
Working with a professional dog trainer can make a huge difference, especially for clingy breeds.
Training helps your dog focus, builds their confidence, and reduces anxious behaviors.
Plus, it's great mental stimulation!
Even just 10-15 minutes of training daily can significantly reduce unwanted behaviors and help your dog feel more secure.
4. Create a Safe Space
Give your dog their own special spot where they can relax independently.
This could be a comfy bed, a crate (if they're crate-trained), or a quiet corner with their favorite toys and maybe even a stuffed animal for comfort.
Teaching your dog that their safe space is a good thing helps them learn that being alone sometimes is okay.
Make this space extra appealing with special treats or toys they only get there.
5. Gradual Desensitization
This is especially important for dogs with separation anxiety.
Start by leaving your dog alone for very short periods, maybe just 30 seconds, and gradually increase the time.
Don't make a big deal about leaving or coming home.
This teaches your pup that you always come back and that being alone isn't scary.
Practice this even when you're not actually going anywhere: step outside, wait a few seconds, then come back in calmly.
6. Physical Exercise and Mental Stimulation
A tired dog is usually a less anxious dog!
Make sure your active dog gets plenty of physical exercise appropriate for their breed.
But don't forget mental stimulation too: puzzle toys, training games, and new experiences all help tire out your pup's brain.
This is especially important for smart, high-energy breeds like Border Collies, Australian Shepherds, and German Shepherds.
Meeting both their physical needs and mental needs reduces anxiety and clingy behavior.
7. Distraction Techniques
When you can't give your dog immediate attention, offer puzzle toys, treat-dispensing toys, or long-lasting chews to keep them occupied.
This teaches them that good things happen even when you're not directly interacting with them.
A stuffed Kong toy or a puzzle feeder in their food bowl can keep them busy and help them associate alone time with positive experiences.
8. Maintain a Consistent Daily Routine
Dogs thrive on routine!
Keeping a consistent schedule for meals, walks, playtime, and bedtime reduces stress and uncertainty.
When your dog knows what to expect, they feel more secure and are less likely to develop clingy dog behavior.
Even in a new environment, try to maintain familiar routines to help your dog adjust with less stress.
9. Don't Reward Clingy or Jealous Behaviors
This one's tough because who doesn't want to comfort their sad pup?
But if you give attention every time your dog whines, paws at you, or shows jealous behaviors, you're accidentally teaching them that these tactics work.
Instead, wait for a calm moment to give affection.
When your dog barks for attention, ignore it. When they settle down quietly, then give them pets and praise.
This teaches them that calm behavior gets rewarded, not pushy behavior.
10. Prepare for Major Life Changes
If you're expecting a new baby, bringing home a new family member, or making other big changes, prepare your dog in advance.
Let them investigate baby items, practice with a baby doll, or gradually introduce them to the concept.
For new babies specifically, let your dog sniff baby blankets before the baby comes home.
When the baby arrives, don't completely ignore your dog; include them calmly in the new routine so they don't feel replaced.
11. Professional Help When Needed
In severe cases, consult a professional.
A certified dog trainer, veterinary behaviorist, or animal behavior specialist can provide personalized strategies for your specific situation.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with admitting you need help.
In fact, it's the best choice for both you and your loving dog breeds!
A professional can identify specific triggers and create a customized plan that addresses your dog's jealousy and emotional needs.
12. Consider Their Mental Health
Just like human beings, dogs can struggle with mental health issues like anxiety and depression.
If your dog's clingy behavior suddenly gets worse or nothing seems to help, talk to your vet.
Sometimes medication or special therapy techniques can make a big difference in severe cases.
Some dogs genuinely need medical intervention to feel calm and secure, and that's perfectly okay.
13. Pet Insurance for Peace of Mind
Speaking of vet visits, having pet insurance can make it easier to get your dog the professional help they might need without worrying about the cost.
Many behavioral consultations and training programs are covered, making it easier to invest in your dog's wellbeing.
Is a Clingy Breed the Right Choice for You?
Before bringing home one of these velcro dog breeds, it's important to honestly consider your lifestyle.
These dogs can make ideal companions for the right pet owner, but they're definitely not the best choice for everyone.
Clingy breeds might be a perfect choice if you:
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Work from home or have a flexible schedule
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Want a loyal cuddle buddy who's always by your side
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Don't mind being followed everywhere (yes, even to the bathroom!)
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Can provide lots of attention and human interaction
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Are looking for an affectionate, devoted companion
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Have experience as a dog lover or are willing to learn
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Can commit to proper training and meeting their emotional needs
You might want to reconsider if you:
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Travel frequently for work
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Are away from home for long periods daily
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Value a lot of personal space
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Want a more independent dog
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Live alone with no backup support for pet care
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Don't have much time for exercise and interaction
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Aren't prepared for potential separation anxiety challenges
The good news is that with proper training, socialization, and management, even the clingiest dog can learn to be more confident and independent.
It just takes time, patience, and lots of love.
Every dog is unique, so there's always a good reason to work with what you've got rather than expecting perfection!
Special Considerations for Different Living Situations
Single Person Households
If you live alone, a clingy breed can actually be a great companion.
You're naturally giving them the constant attention they crave!
Just make sure you have a backup plan for times when you do need to leave.
Dog daycare, a trusted friend, or a professional pet sitter can help.
Some single people specifically choose the most loyal dog breeds because they love having that devoted companion at home.
Families with Kids
Many clingy breeds like Golden Retrievers and Labs are also incredibly gentle with children, making them excellent family dogs.
Just teach your kids to respect the dog's safe space and not encourage possessive behavior.
When new babies arrive, involve the dog calmly rather than completely changing their routine.
Most loyal dogs adapt well to babies with proper introduction and continued attention.
Apartment Living
Some clingy breeds, especially small dogs like the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Italian Greyhound, or Boston Terrier, adapt well to apartment living despite needing little space.
Just ensure they get enough physical exercise and mental stimulation despite limited room.
The good news for apartment dwellers?
Your clingy pup will be perfectly happy in a small space as long as you're there with them!
Multi-Pet Households
In a multi-pet household, jealousy can become a real challenge.
Make sure each pet gets individual attention and has their own resources (separate food bowls, beds, toys).
This reduces competition and helps prevent resource guarding.
Watch for signs of a jealous dog when introducing new pets.
Go slowly and reward good behavior when your pets interact calmly with each other.
Related: Be a Better Dog Owner: A Guide to Responsible Pet Ownership
The Bottom Line: Understanding Your Velcro Dog
Clingy or jealous behaviors come from one place: pure love and devotion.
Your dog isn’t trying to annoy you - they just adore being part of your pack.
The best way to help them is simple: recognize their triggers, provide structure, and build their confidence.
Remember: your velcro dog’s devotion is a gift.
Cherish it, guide it, and enjoy all the cuddles along the way!
Have you dealt with a particularly clingy pup or seen signs of a jealous dog in your own furry friend?
Share your experiences and tips in the comments below! And if you're struggling with severe separation anxiety, aggressive behavior, or other behavioral issues, don't hesitate to reach out to a veterinary behaviorist or professional dog trainer for help. Your dog's well-being (and your sanity) is worth it!
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2 comments
My year old 100+ male Rotterdam started showing aggression around his kennel and especially when we fed him towards our little dogs. He was only 12 weeks old when I got him shortly after I lost my husband to feel safe. I have a 14 year old Min- Pin, 10 year old Min-Pin, and a 3 year old French Bulldog which are all girls. He always played with the Bull dog and quickly became best friends. They all spent time with me together. They sat on the couch together and even took naps with me on my bed. I just got him fixed about a month ago hoping to stop his aggressive and wild behavior. It didn’t so far and his jealousy over all my time alone has worsened. I’m afraid he is going to seriously hurt one of them. But he will also want to play at times with Frenchie. One time he wants to play tug of war with her and then gets aggressive when she wants to play the next. I love him so much, but I’m afraid he is going to hurt her or the others.
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MrFluffyFriend™ replied:
Hi Krysti,
Was there a significant change (like moving) before his aggressive behavior? What did the vet say when you had him neutered?
i have a year and a half female shitzu and is very jealous of my 14 year old maltese-poo female dog. my 14 year dog is blind and deaf so it doesnt matter to her, over looks the shitzu, doesnt seem to care on whats going on. i worry the shitzu could hurt the maltese-poo. so i try to separate them, which sometimes its not as easy as it seems
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MrFluffyFriend™ replied:
Hey Nina,
While Shih Tzus are not generally jealous types, they may demonstrate some jealous behaviors. It’s a good idea to separate them from time to time but it’s also a good idea for your Shih to learn how to live (we hope peacefully) with your Maltese Poo. A specialist like a dog behaviourist might help. :)